Do you ever run into someone you know but cannot for the life of you remember their name and you are too embarrassed to ask? Ever gone on a date with them? Well I did. And true to my dating form it was awkward and weird as hell.
I’d been living in Maryland for a few months now and I’d talked to several people on multiple dating websites and apps (I’ve since cut back to 1 for now). Of course with so many dogs in the fight I was bound to win a couple. And by win I mean get a few numbers. I talked to several but most petered out. One of these failed conversations text me TWO months later asking if I wanted to go out to dinner. completely out of the blue. It had been so long I’d removed him from my contacts list (if I ever had him in there in the first place).
From our last conversations (conveniently still in my phone) I realized this was the guy who was just looking for something casual and had previously only wanted to Netflix and “Chill”. At the time I was still beating myself up heavily over my mistakes with “A” (The Almost Relationship) including my failed attempt at being okay with being one of many, so I turned him down on all fronts. But this second time I was more open to the idea of something casual, and he clearly had changed tactics and may have even changed his mine on the idea of dating. So I agreed, after all it was just dinner and I had nothing to lose.
He told me we were going to go to this great new steak place a few towns over. Another sign that he may have changed his mind. When he picks me up I realized that I still don’t know his name, but now I don’t feel like I can ask. I just roll with it, and let this nameless stranger take me to dinner at this new steakhouse. Well if not knowing his name was a bad thing, then the steakhouse choice was even worse. He took me to Texas Roadhouse! Now I know some of you, maybe even most of you, will tell me that it is a good restaurant and there was a time with you that I would have agreed. However, the last time I ate there I found, not 1, but THREE long dark hairs in my food. THREE! Needless to say I was completely disgusted and never ate there again until my date with nameless.
Well the date progressed and it wasn’t to bad, except for the fact that he did not really know how to hold down a conversation and asked me the same questions over and over again. Then it was time for the bill. I had my card out to split the bill (because I am a modern female, I wasn’t going to pay for it because he asked me out but I’d definitely cover my share) and he insisted. We get home and he practically invites himself in, I turn him down and then never hear from him again.
That’s not exactly true. He messaged me about 5 months later! I did not respond.